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Reply #1050 - 03/06/10 at 03:30:24
 
Quote from Talking Leaves of Autumn on 03/05/10 at 21:47:00:
You single- handidly have driven away more new members, non- Lakota, who have come here, because of Joe's books & words of wisdom & power, than anyone else, than everyone else here combined for that matter !

Not sure about this one, Talking Leaves of Autumn. As far as I can see, kinajin is always open to conversation - with everyone. At least the cold wind which I, for my part, have gotten hold of the idea of feeling in my face occasionally on this board hasn't derived from him. A general dislike of us whites is, of course, totally understandable, taking the history of the last 500 years into account. But I'm really not into all this getting personal stuff. There's plenty of interesting subjects to occupy ourselves with which might be of far more use, don't you think...
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Reply #1051 - 03/06/10 at 05:26:20
 
I just don't get the point where a member is writing his diary in ONE single topic and still has to receive bad comment.
(While other members may just like to read them)
 
I DON't post in native topics any more. I DON't post in politic items any more.
 
If this forum is only about negative, i'm gonna leave. cry
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Reply #1052 - 03/07/10 at 04:13:55
 
Hiya everyone.  
Thanks for your in-depth response TLOA. I have been stuck unable to post anything on this forum or any other. I was able to post a direct e-mail to JD Shearer, whose advice I took and now it appears all is well. I hope that everyone here has been enjoying themselves. I have been reading the many posts and responses, without being able to reply - very frustrating. TLOA my friend from California didn't know the answer to the question either, concerning the 'Great White Father' thing and POTUS = pres of the united states, classic acronym!  Grin  
 
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Reply #1053 - 03/07/10 at 07:40:16
 

...I've been an observer (for the most part) of the exchanges referred to here
 
However, I've tried to deal with individuals (as directly as possible) by pm, email or phone
 
...As I've stated before, I have no cultural legacy or tribal identity preserved, honored and passed down  
 
through the generations (we just know that we have Indian blood relatives well distributed throughout  
 
our family) I mention this because it has enabled me to accept those individual choices resulting in my  
 
lack of self-knowledge that could have enabled me to avoid & understand a number of things by now  
 
that I've had to work through by using other means that have caused me to grow (adaptively) in return
 
 
...However, my point is that respect for choice can be powerful (it may even provide a means for insight)
 
We come here by choice, we participate by choice & if we REAL-ly want to understand where some folks  
 
are 'coming from' (sometimes) we need to familiarize our-Selves with where they have been (& still are)
 
...I know the "Hood" is no joke & I'm finding that the "Rez" isn't either (Life is Complexity & Diversity)
 
 
This just seems to be how things are & it seems to be inescapable (Body or Spirit; Dead or Alive)
 
     
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Reply #1054 - 03/07/10 at 15:39:39
 
Quote from Rico on 03/06/10 at 05:26:20:
I just don't get the point where a member is writing his diary in ONE single topic and still has to receive bad comment.
(While other members may just like to read them)

I DON't post in native topics any more. I DON't post in politic items any more.

If this forum is only about negative, i'm gonna leave. cry
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altho many times things seem negative...it is only the "other" view that is coming into play.... i ain't perfect....this forum ain't perfect....maybe you are....but it just ain't a perfect world....
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Reply #1055 - 03/07/10 at 18:24:09
 

..The 'other' view seems to result  
 
when our personal view fails to be 'connected'
 
in a 'real' way that we live & breathe
 
...I understand this now
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Reply #1056 - 03/11/10 at 20:22:08
 
To Sequoia - Sekoli dear sister ! Hope all is well with you, haven't heard from you in awhile. Always glad to, ho ! You say, " Not sure about this one, Talking Leaves of Autumn. As far as I can see, kinajin is always open to conversation - with everyone. At least the cold wind which I, for my part, have gotten hold of the idea of feeling in my face occasionally on this board hasn't derived from him. A general dislike of us whites is, of course, totally understandable, taking the history of the last 500 years into account. But I'm really not into all this getting personal stuff.  Sequoia, I was just reacting to some e-mails I have received recently & some so not recently. I will not get into any specifics.  I will not get into any specifics. Some new members leaving because they felt unwelcome here. Some older members leaving because they began to feel uncomfortable here for various reasons. Others taking some time off from coming here to calm their feelings & collect their thoughts. Some wondering why so few new members are joining. & others noting less participation by existing members. Perhaps I got a little personal, but I just got tired of bottling up my thoughts & feelings any longer. I have always tried to tactfully persuade those thinking of leaving to stay for awhile longer, to give ThunderDreamers a second chance, to be patient, exercise some understanding, & to please not take things too personal. I have had very limited success so far, but a few at least. Some of those who have left, I apprecisted interacting with here, & those I still do miss ! & for the record dear sister, I actually do like & respect kinajin, he truely is a character, a one-of-a kind, as each of us here is. He is who he is. & yes he has much to offer from his experiences & unique perspective. I think some existing non- N.A.members, especially the new ones, don't always understand his thoughts & words expressed, perhaps are confused to some degree or another, & take these personal, some are offended. If you care to research this Sequoia, all you have to do is go back, look at all of the New Members Threads, read the posts, & note how long they stayed. Just read the posts & decide for yourself dear sister. I simply would like existing members to feel comfortable & wish to continue participating & contributing. I would like new members, especially those who come here after reading Joe Marshall's books, to really feel welcomed, that they feel comfortable here, & would like to stay, participate, & contribute here is all. If my fondest wishes just now expressed to you are " getting into all of this personal stuff, " then Sequoia, I must plead guity as charged. There once was such positive energy to be found here. That has disipated to a large degree here in my humble, personal opinion only, ho ! I so would like to see the positive energy return here once again, like it once was !
You say, "There's plenty of interesting subjects to occupy ourselves with which might be of far more use, don't you think?"  To answer your classic tie-down question - yes, I agree there are plenty of interesting subjects to occupy ourselves with, ho ! & I would like to be doing that very thing right now, ho ! But to bring up & share some of the thoughts & words I have received about new members leaving, existing members leaving, existing members no longer feeling like coming here much anymore & participating & contributing. About existing members feeling that they have to take time off to decide if they even want to come back. About bringing back the positive energy to ThunderDreamers, is that not of any use Sequoia ? I toss a tie-down question right back your way ! Peace & love, & many blessings dear sister, always ! Ho !     Fire On Water.  
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Reply #1057 - 03/11/10 at 21:12:11
 
To Rico - Sekoli Cowboy, ho ! You say - If this forum is only about negative, i'm gonna leave.  Ho !" Hey, please believe me Rico, this Forum is simply not about the negative. There still remains the positive among those here ! We simply need more positive, back like there once was here. Interest, excitement, more humor, more laughs, more good feelings. More participation, more sharing, more contributions from everyone, when they have the time, & feel like doing so. Doggone it Rico, I like & appreciate interacting with you here, love your past stories shared here with me, with other members of this online Family in this Forum provided here by Joe Marshall, & with all of the Guests who come here as well ! kinajin & I have always had our differences, probabbly always will, just the way it is sometimes, ho ! Every once in awhile things build up, come to a head, & steam is let out by one or another of us. This time it was just my turn to do so. As I sincerely said to our dear sister Sequoia in the previous post. I genuinely like & respect kinajin, he really does have so very much to offer here - knowledge, experience, wisdom, humor, if somewhat cuttingly sharp at times. I just wish, hope, & lift up my prayers that he might consider being a little less sharp, perhaps being a little more tactful in his choice of words to new members, especially non- N.A. ones. We are all after all, brothers & sisters, children of the earth, regardless of the past, because we are in the present, & the future is still on the horizon. Many of the ancestors dreamt & had visions, of one day, all Peoples becoming one Peoples ! I would wish that this good spirit would pervade all of ThunderDreamers, soon ! We are all different & unique, we all have certain unique things to offer & share with each other, & on the other hand, we are all the same, we are all equal - trying to endure & survive, trying to practice all of the virtues during the course of our daily lives, all trying to walk the Red Path, each in his or her own way. So my brother, have & keep your faith here, this still is a good place to come & be becoming what you wish to be. Excersise both your patience & understanding. Everything happens for a reason, apparent at the time or not. & that all things are connected, sooner or later, or not if in a lifetime in this world, all things are connected in the next world for sure, ho ! Rico, I would absolutely hate to have your name on my list of those who have left here, yet another I would miss. I say these things from the bottom of my heart, mind, & souls ! Balance & harmony Cowboy, many blessings your way, always ! I have had many failures in trying to persuade members to stay here, but several successes. Rico, lift my spirits, so to speak, let me please add your name to those few successes. I would so hate to have to put you in the failure column ! Ho ! & I mean that my brother !   With respect ! Ho !  Fire On Water.
 
 
 
 
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Reply #1058 - 03/11/10 at 21:40:52
 
To Craig RB - Sekoli - you say, " Hiya everyone.  
Thanks for your in-depth response TLOA. I have been stuck unable to post anything on this forum or any other. I was able to post a direct e-mail to JD Shearer, whose advice I took and now it appears all is well. I hope that everyone here has been enjoying themselves. I have been reading the many posts and responses, without being able to reply - very frustrating. TLOA my friend from California didn't know the answer to the question either, concerning the 'Great White Father' thing and POTUS = pres of the united states, classic acronym! Your are most welcome, ho ! There are those who think I go to too great of depths, talk, write, type, way too much here. It is but my nature to do so, ho ! One can not just so easily turn away from their natural instincts. & to those of you readers of this thread who have sent me e-mails, know only so well to the depths I often go in a reply, ho ! Have caught up with most, still have some to go, so please be patient, I will reply, soon hopefully ! I hear what you say Craig & so fully understand. My pc went down just before the Holidays, & was offline for weeks while my pc was being rebuilt.  Computers, love 'em when they are working, hate 'em when they're not, ho ! Even more frustrating is not to even be able to read them at all, ho ! The 'Great White Father' thing and POTUS = pres of the united states, classic acronym is still confusing to me, ho ! So good to hear from you Craig ! Wishing you beauty & wonder all around you & your loved ones, & many blessings your way !    Fire On Water.  
 
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Reply #1059 - 03/11/10 at 21:49:17
 
To Santy - Sekoli ! You say - " ...However, my point is that respect for choice can be powerful (it may even provide a means for insight)  
 
We come here by choice, we participate by choice & if we REAL-ly want to understand where some folks  
 
are 'coming from' (sometimes) we need to familiarize our-Selves with where they have been (& still are)  
 
...I know the "Hood" is no joke & I'm finding that the "Rez" isn't either (Life is Complexity & Diversity)  
 
 
This just seems to be how things are & it seems to be inescapable (Body or Spirit; Dead or Alive) "  All I can say is you speak with words of both wisdom & power here. Nyah-weh for your share ! I couldn't agree more with what you said, so I have no need to say more, for once, ho !  Few can do that Santy, you just did, ho ! Much continued balance & harmony, & many blessings your way ! Ho !    Fire On Water.
 
     
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Reply #1060 - 03/11/10 at 22:05:05
 
To ndnhorseman - Sekoli ! You say - " altho many times things seem negative...it is only the "other" view that is coming into play.... i ain't perfect....this forum ain't perfect....maybe you are....but it just ain't a perfect world.... " In my humble, personal opinion only, you also speak simple words straight to the point, words of both wisdom & power ! Nyah-weh for your share here, appreciated they were & are !  Also wishing you much balance & harmony, & many blessings your way this night, this week-end, & in this upcoming week as well ! Ho ! Your words expressed also left me with having to say little in reply. Two in a row, a third & I stike out ! Ho ! Never been done here before. I never have much to say to words of wisdom & power as you have expressed here ! But I don't think for one minute Rico thinks he is perfect, for in this life, in this world, the only perfection, the only consistent constant, is imperfection ! For now, I have no more to say ! Ho !   Fire On Water.
    
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Reply #1061 - 03/11/10 at 23:24:41
 
I readily admit, I am not a computer geek. I have tried several times to post photographs on Hin's Board following his directions. If anyone knows how to do this, & would be willing, I would send you some photographs via e-mail of our bison on the Wildlife Refuge, if you could post them for me. You would also have my permission to post them elsewhere if you wished, as long as you gave credit to the Refuge. Or feel free to send them to family or friends if you wished to share these. Just a thought is all. I am geting frustrated trying to figure these directions out & share these here. But I have a feeling members & guests might enjoy viewing these. Just tossing this out to the four directions to the four winds, ho ! Also have wonderful pics of other animals prairies, woods, spectacular scenic shots, & unusaul nature shots as well. Oh well, nothing ventured, nothing gained, ho !  Is this more intereting Sequoia, do you think ?  Nothing personal, just kidding is all ! Rico, do you have any computer geek friends who might be able to do this ?  Ho !    Fire On Water.
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Reply #1062 - 03/11/10 at 23:54:46
 
The following is taken from Kent Nerburn's blog. He is an excellent writer as Joe Marshall is, the difference being, he is non-N. A. Joe has told me he knows & respects Kent. Some here like Kent's books, some here don't. But I share this here with those that do.    Fire On Water.    An Interview about The Wolf at Twilight. Read it, use it, pass it on.
October 15th, 2009  
Dear Readers,
 
Here is an interview that I recently did on The Wolf at Twilight.  I think it will give you an insight into the book that is well worth having.  We have permission to use this interview in any way we like.  So I offer it up to any of you who wish to use it, publish it, excerpt it, or pass it on.  I encourage you to do so, not only because I would like the book to sell well, but because the more I get feedback on it from Native and non-Native readers, the more I become convinced that it contains an important story that must be told.  That I was able to tell it has been my good fortune.  It is now up to all of us to make sure that we pass it on.
 
Enjoy the interview:
 
Kent Nerburn’s new book, The Wolf at Twilight: An Elder’s Journey into a Land of Ghosts and Shadows, is a follow-up to his award-winning classic, Neither Wolf nor Dog. It continues the story of the Lakota elder, Dan. But this time it brings us along on Dan’s search for his lost sister who disappeared decades ago in the Indian boarding school system. I talked to Kent via email about The Wolf at Twilight. I’d like to share our conversation with you.
 
Neither Wolf nor Dog has long been one of my favorite books. I was concerned that The Wolf at Twilight wouldn’t measure up. But it is every bit the equal of Neither Wolf nor Dog, and, in some ways, it’s superior.  
 
That’s kind of you to say. I tend not to compare books. They’re like children: each is unique with its own strengths and weaknesses. However, I’m curious, what is it that you found “superior” about The Wolf at Twilight?
 
I was taken into the book on a different level. Neither Wolf nor Dog was a road trip with revelations and insights. The Wolf at Twilight reads like a mystery with revelations and insights.
 
That’s because it’s based on a mystery – the mystery of what happened to Dan’s little sister, Yellow Bird.
 
But there was something else, too. There was a different emotional texture to the book – kind of an undercurrent of sadness and loss.
 
That ‘s there, no doubt. And it’s quite intentional. Much of contemporary Native life is about sadness and loss – more than most of us can ever understand. I wanted to bring that timbre to the book. But I hope that’s not all you took from it.
 
On the contrary. That’s just the added textural element that intrigued me and made the book so satisfying. Other than that, it had the same quality of insight, the same wonderful sense of humor, the same surprising combination of comedy and tragedy, and the same rich cast of characters that made Neither Wolf nor Dog so unique. But this time you offered up a” can’t put it down” plot line and shed some light into the darker corners of Native experience.  
 
Well, I wanted to tell more of Dan’s story, to be sure, so readers would have a further glimpse into the world of contemporary Native American life and its spiritual insights and beliefs. But I also wanted to go a little deeper into some of the darker places than I did in Neither Wolf nor Dog, so readers would come face to face with some of the hidden history of Native America. I guess if it were up to me to describe, I’d say that Neither Wolf nor Dog was written in a major key, and The Wolf at Twilight was created in a minor key.
 
I like that description. But let’s change gears for a moment. The Wolf at Twilight is a difficult book to categorize. It reads like fiction, but you say it is based in fact.  
 
It is, absolutely. It’s a strange literary beast, to be sure, but that’s how I wanted it. It falls into the squirmy literary category of “Novelized non-fiction,” which is as shapeless, amorphous, and contradictory a category as I can imagine. I prefer to think of The Wolf at Twilight as a teaching story. Dan once said to me, “People learn best by stories, because stories lodge deep in the heart.” I wanted to tell a story that would lodge deep in the reader’s heart, and would do so in a way that reveals some of the dark truths of Native experience while giving voice to the bright truths that Native reality contains.
 
You keep referring to the light and the dark truth of Native reality. Can you explain this a little more?
 
Sure. As regards The Wolf at Twilight, the dark truth is the tragic, often horrific reality of the boarding school experience where Indian children were taken from their parents’ homes, stripped of their language and identity, and made to become someone they were not. It’s a truth of childhood rapes, forced labor, unbearable loneliness and dislocation, and an indoctrination into self-hatred that has repercussions to the present day.
 
The bright truth is the beautiful and deeply insightful way of teaching, learning, and understanding, that the boarding schools tried to destroy, but which still beats at the heart of the Native experience.
 
In The Wolf at Twilight I try to bring you into the presence of both these truths through the story of Dan’s search for his little sister, Yellow Bird, who disappeared from the boarding school system under mysterious circumstances when both she and Dan were very young.
 
Give me some examples of the dark truths of the boarding school experience.  
 
Here’s one that is told by Dan’s friend, Grover, in the course of the book. He recounts the story of a young boy in a boarding school who was falsely accused of using his handkerchief for toilet paper and was dropped down in the outhouse and made to crawl back and forth on his hands and knees digging for his handkerchief while the school matron stood above and watched.
 
These things really happened?
 
Absolutely. These, and worse.
 
But the book doesn’t seem to dwell on things like this.
 
No, just like the Native people don’t dwell on them. They are always present in the mind and heart, and the trauma runs deep. But life needs to go on. Dan and Grover reveal these dark truths as much as is necessary, but I wanted to focus on the bright truths that Dan reveals about the traditional Native way of teaching and understanding the world.
 
Tell me some of these bright truths.
 
Sure. Let me read you a short passage where Dan is speaking:
 
“We do not look at our children as ‘full-growns waiting to be.’ We see them as special beings who bring us the freshness of wonder. They keep our hearts soft and our hands gentle. They keep us from thinking only about ourselves. They give the elders a reason to live, because we entrust the elders with the shaping of their hearts and setting their feet straight upon the path of life.”
 
This is part of a long teaching he gives about the circle of life. Like so much else he says, it offers us a glimpse into a beautiful way of life that we came close to destroying, but which still beats strong in the Native heart.
 
They sound like teachings worth learning.  
 
They are, and throughout the book Dan speaks about them at length, revealing such things as the way the elders taught the young by training their powers of silence and observation, and the way that moral behavior was taught to children through observation of the animals.
 
And he offers his usual interesting takes on modern culture – for example, saying that Native cultures are “honoring” cultures, while European cultures are “discovering” cultures.
 
As always, he’s a deeply insightful man whose thoughts, to my mind, are well worth hearing.
 
I can’t let this interview pass without noting the wonderful sense of humor that The Wolf at Twilight shares with Neither Wolf nor Dog.
 
I’m glad that came through. It’s an essential part of Native life and has been part of every situation I’ve had the good fortune to experience.
 
Like Jumbo, the four hundred pound mechanic, and crappy, his assistant crappy who drives a pickup truck with a plywood door and a mason jar for a carburetor?  
 
Exactly.
 
And Mr. Peanut?
 
We don’t talk about Mr. Peanut.
 
Understandably.
 
But, yes, this is exactly the kind of humor that I so treasure about the Native world. The tragic and the comic are inseparably intertwined, as are the sacred and the ordinary.
 
I’m glad you mentioned that intertwining of the sacred and the ordinary.  
 
To me it is one of the key elements of Native culture that the rest of us should embrace. The spiritual is ever-present in their lives, no matter how ordinary or even debased the particular situation might be.
 
Like the time Dan berated you for not offering thanks to the Creator for a half-cooked rancid hotdog?
 
You’ve got it.
 
What else is it that attracts you to Native cultures?
 
The love of family, the deep connection to the land, the belief in honor, the respect for the elders – I could go on and on. But I hope all these values are revealed in the book.
 
Well, you’ve been very kind to answer so many questions. Let me try to sum up. Would it be safe to say that The Wolf at Twilight is a teaching story that is part history lesson, part spiritual lesson, and part road novel, and part mystery?
 
That’s a lot of parts. But, at its best, “yes.” I would add that it’s a glimpse into contemporary Native life that few non-Natives ever see and a story worthy of the hearing.
 
Let me close with one last question about your interest in Native issues. How did you come by it, and what do you see as your responsibility to Native materials as a non-Native writer?  
 
Thank you for asking this. Part of my interest in Native issues is due to circumstance. I live between three reservations in the woods of northern Minnesota where the white footprint does not run deep. Living and working among Native people where the land still feels like theirs makes it easy to care about the world as they see it and live it.
 
But part of my interest is because of my belief that a true spirituality should grow naturally from the land. America is Indian land, and the Indian peoples have shaped their spiritual understanding in a way that feels authentic and integrated. We all have much to learn from it, and I want to do my part to assist n that learning.
 
However, having said that, it is a challenge being a non-Native writer working in Native subject matters. You must always be taking your spiritual temperature to see where you’re at. And you are always open to the criticism of “dabbling in Native themes for fun and profit.” But I look at it as a chosen obligation to use such skills as I have to help bring Native issues and knowledge to as wide an audience as possible.
 
We are all common children of a common land, and there are wrongs that must be acknowledged and healing that must take place. But more than that, there is a richness in Native tradition – spiritually, culturally, and morally – that has much to teach us all. We need to find a way to listen to that richness without trying to appropriate it or twist it.
 
My job, as a writer, is to serve as an ally to the Native people to get their story told to the extent that they want it shared, and to help bring the depth of their spiritual insight to bear on the world in which we all live.
 
The Wolf at Twilight, like it’s predecessor, Neither Wolf nor Dog, is an effort to do this. I hope that you and your readers will find my efforts worthwhile.
 
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Reply #1063 - 03/12/10 at 02:13:05
 
Thank you for your thoughts, Talking Leaves of Autumn. I'd like you to know that my remarks weren't only or specifically aimed at you. And maybe you're indeed right to better express some things than to swallow them in anger...
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Reply #1064 - 03/12/10 at 08:22:59
 

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Reply #1065 - 03/12/10 at 17:27:16
 
tloa, if I do intimidate its not me, its because of insecurity and romanticism.   I thought you were more open-minded. Smiley
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Reply #1066 - 03/12/10 at 17:30:25
 
I 'single-handedly' driven away members??  OF Course!!! I'm Unpapa. Grin Grin Grin Grin
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Reply #1067 - 03/12/10 at 21:42:20
 
To Sequoia - Sekoli !  You say, " Thank you for your thoughts, Talking Leaves of Autumn. I'd like you to know that my remarks weren't only or specifically aimed at you. And maybe you're indeed right to better express some things than to swallow them in anger !" You are most welcome dear sister ! Never thought that for one moment, ho ! & not at all in anger, that is truely a negative energy. More out of concern for the online Family here in this Forum provided by Joe Marshall. This Forum is much like life, it has its ups & downs, but I so very much want it to endure & survive, & continue on, on a high note, so to speak, if possible. We here are all who we are, sometimes for better, sometimes not, especially including myself. I was simply venting some built up steam, like a geyser in Yellowstone. When its time to let go, you simply gotta go, ho ! You may not understand Sequoia my words or meanings fully, but I do hope & wish you may perhaps partially, ho ! May beauty & wonder surround you dear sister, & as always, many blessings your way !    Fire On Water.
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Reply #1068 - 03/12/10 at 22:13:35
 
To Santy - Sekloi ! You are most welcome. Nyah-weh for delivering a first strike, so to speak. I do not often use a reference from baseball. I love to play it, softball these days, too many winters past for fastball anymore, ho ! But I no longer watch the so-called Ameica's past-time. Way to slow for me, puts me to sleep, ho ! Now football, that's an entirely different story. I also played that once along with basketball. I follow college & professional football, & professional basketball. & still now & then hockey, which I also played, albeit briefly. Thought I'd save some teeth & a broken jaw & nose, ho ! But I did, & still do, like the fights. Fighting on skates on ice is still one of my fondest memories of my youth & growing up back in the lands of ice, cold, & snow. Wnen I played in was on outside rinks. & when it snowed, time would periodically be called in the middle of periods, & both teams & coaches would grab shovels to clear the snow so play could resume. For me, those were some of the good old days, way back when, ho ! But I again digress, as I am so prone to do ! As you get older Santy, you will find that you will reminiscence more about your old ways in your youth. About the memories, the fun, the successes & failures, & the valuable lessons learned, & how they may have at times, changed the direction of the remainder of your life. & as the winters pass, the seasons seem somehow to pass you by ever faster. Just some things I share with you as I think of them typing, ho !      Fire On Water.
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Reply #1069 - 03/12/10 at 22:54:43
 
To kinajin - Sekloi ! You say, "  tloa, if I do intimidate its not me, its because of insecurity and romanticism.   I thought you were more open-minded." I cannot address anyone's insecurity, I do not know this of anyone here. As for romanticism, I myself do not see anything necessarily wrong with this, as with all things, not taken to an extreme. I so appreciate & greatly value all of the beauty & wonder which surrounds me ! If this is romanticism as you say, then I am a romantic. Perhaps it is the fact I am but a mixed-blood. I appreciate the miracle of new life, like with the red calves, but recognize recognize the inevitably of death either by an accident, by a predator, or by old age, or disease, or illness, of a bison bull or cow, for example. I may be a romantic, but I am also a realist.  Life is often short, so eat dessert first, ho ! One should enjoy & make the best of life while they can, no one knows when they will leave this world for the next world, leave family & friends, to join the ancestors. To me, in my humble, personal opinion only, that is both romanticism & realism !  I try my very best kinajin to find a balance & harmony between both of these, sometimes I do better, sometimes not, but I always continue to try, that is all I can do. But bottom line, I bleieve that there is nothing inherently wrong with romanticism in moderation,  if tempered with realism. This is my personal opinion only. & I also try to be open-minded whether you realize, recognize, or reject it, that choice is yours & yours alone to decide & make. For now, until I get to your next post, I have no more to say kinajin, ho ! Wishing you much beauty & wonder in your life & many blessings your way ! Ho ! With respect - Fire On Water.
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Reply #1070 - 03/12/10 at 23:51:34
 
To kinajin - you say, "  I 'single-handedly' driven away members??  OF Course!!! I'm Unpapa."   As so often for me, I am unclear as to your word & meaning here. I simply do not understand why you would want to drive away new members or existing members from here, especially those who have come here inspired from reading one of Joe's wonderful books, who incidently is the very provider of this Forum here. Please explain this for me kinakin, I really would like to know what your reasoning is. I read in your thread you were recently hospitalized. Sorry to hear of that, glad you are out of there, before you could contract any flesh-eating bacteria or virus, which seems to be so prevalent in hospitals today, even though hospitals say they have cut down on these occurences. To my way of thinking & believing, hospitals are like our governments, federal, state, & local, after so many lies of the past & present, who with any common sense, would even begin to believe their spins & stories ? I could tell many stories of hospitals from my experiece with them. In fact, chiimegwech kinajin for you inpiration here by your recent experience. I will recount my experiences with hospitals, & those of my parents. These stories could be of some importance & value to both members & guests here. & may further inspire members here to share their experiences & stories. Nyah-weh kinajin ! Often your seemingly flippant remarks, sometimes not understandable to me , push buttons, so to speak, which give rise to a whole new set of posts on a particular subject of interest to both members & guests here, ho ! Sure this is not intentional on your part, just the side effects of your comments.  Throw gasoline on a fire, & what do you get ? Ho ! Keep on tossing kinajin, & the more you are going to get ! Instead of talking less, you in fact, will be responsible for me talking even more. I just love it, perhaps you will not ! & that part, I will enjoy even more, ho ! What goes around, sooner or later comes around, ho ! This I believe to be true ! Ho !    Fire On Water.
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Reply #1071 - 03/14/10 at 07:44:46
 
Quote from kinajin on 03/12/10 at 17:30:25:
I 'single-handedly' driven away members??  OF Course!!! I'm Unpapa. Grin Grin Grin Grin

 
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Reply #1072 - 03/14/10 at 10:03:24
 
It should've been Uncpapa.  Pila Rico.  Grin Grin Grin Grin
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Reply #1073 - 03/15/10 at 13:52:08
 
Ah, je pensais que tu étais un papa  Grin
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Reply #1074 - 03/16/10 at 02:44:10
 
Well my friend TLOA is well spoken. Any member of a forum can comment as they will, keeping in mind that with a raw written word, we lose the voice inflection, the tone, the volume, looking in the speakers eyes, body posture etc etc etc. So it can be easy to misconstrue or misunderstand a written comment - most especially when most forum posters probably dont know each other.  
I've been on forums before and written a comment, which was taken totally out of context. Also sense of humour varies from people to people - including different nationalities as much as the person next door to home. TLOA, I dont dispute what you say, in fact I read and re-read your posts as an avid fan, yet, though I am willing to admit fault, I've always taken kinajin's posted one-liners in a humorous context. And I've learned things here too. From many comments, including yours. So here I sit and wonder if I have totally missed something?  
Perhaps the non-Lakota do not express too much, out of respect for the Lakota here, in case written words are taken out of context, or misunderstood and cause insult? Up to now, I've been careful what I post, but I figure, as a forum member, I should write this message. I've read JMIII's books too - that was my inspiration to come here and still is. Especially looking at the similarities in previous historical treatments of certain peoples, on separate continents, divided by oceans. And also out of admiration for many of those peoples, it is good to connect, to communicate, to maybe even make a friend or two amongst them.
Maybe, as a bona-fide non-Lakota on a Lakota forum, I should sit up more and ask all the 'dumb-questions', without worrying about causing an offense. But that might get me barred from the forum.  
Finally, I would like to say, Wasicu is still my favourite word. I use it all the time at work to describe incompetent and purile, small-minded managers and suck-hole foremen on the job site. I like it even better because they dont have a clue what it means and not one of them is game to ask. They do know, I only ever use it in a derogatory manner. So there you go, non-Lakota says Wasicu and likes doing it! And before the 'rascist' tag kicks in, if you are an incompetent wretch that should be kicked off a job, I dont care what colour, race, creed or sex you are - as far as I'm concerned, your'e a Wasicu.  
I am enjoying this site, so I will try to participate more - regardless of what anyone says about my comments. I also wish everyone great blessings, peace, harmony, a meaningful life, a happy dreamtime and inexpensive divorces. Fire on Water sounds really cool, so if you dont mind TLOA my friend, I might use that too - perhaps that would be a great saying for all forum members? The 'catchword', so to speak, so nobody insults anyone else, either by design or mistake:
Fire on Water - could one of the Lakota here please translate that from English to Lakota for me? I have a Lakota dictionary, but would like to get it right. Might like to add it to my extremely miniscule vocabulary. Thanks in advance for any help with it. Next time I post something, it will probably be a lot shorter than this one. Apologies to any who have been offended by what I have written here.  
 
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